Now that we have a house the question of whether or not to get a pet continues to come up. We both had dogs growing up and loved it. We think it would be a great thing for our family to have a pet of some sort, namely a dog or cat (or both), because we thought it was great having them as children. We're both more dog people, but we can enjoy a cat too and can see the pros to going that direction rather than a dog. We can't decide for sure though if we want to make that commitment, or which animal to choose. That's where you come in, dear reader. What would you suggest? And please, if you hate pets, don't be shy in saying so, and your reasons why. We want all the feedback we can get.
I am not going to list the reasons why we'd like one, except to say, we think they'd be fun for us and our kids, and they are a natural form of pest control. Some reasons why we're hesitant are:
-We have a small backyard and it's not going to have any grass, not ideal for either kids or pets.
-We have to make sure to keep our pets very contained in our small backyard because we live very near wilderness area (reservation) with coyotes, who, we've been told on many occasions, will make domestic pets their meal. Trying to contain a cat, in general, can be very difficult. I'd hate for it to escape and be found by a coyote.
-If we had a dog, it would have to live inside most of the time (which is not Brett's preference), or our small backyard, or we can, of course, take it on a walk, or to the dog run nearby. The walk and dog run aren't a problem in our current weather, but come May - Sept, and I am pretty sure the only time of day that will be even possible will be way too early for my taste or pretty late at night. That worries me because dogs need to get out and get their exercise and they don't have air-conditioned gyms like us.
-We have a new leather sofa that we could see getting very damaged by pets with their claws, slobber, etc. I know we can train some animals to stay off the sofa, but even until they are trained, or if they want to be naughty, they can do some damage. (We do have a lifetime warranty on our sofa to get it repaired from pretty much anything a child or pet would do, so that's a bonus, but we'd hate to have to do that very often).
-Dogs bark and annoy some neighbors, and many people are afraid of dogs so you have to be careful to put the dog away with many people.
-Many people, including my mom, are allergic to cats. I would hate for us to create an environment in our home where some people couldn't come because of cat hair. I don't know how much exposure one has to have to a cat before it affects them, but I don't want to make my mom's, or anyone else's visits, uncomfortable.
-You have to figure out how they will be taken care of if you leave on vacation. A cat is easier in this department. You can leave it for a few days in the house with plenty of food, water and a litter box and it will do just fine. A dog really can't be left like that unless you want your house destroyed. I don't know if we want to have to find pet sitters, or take them to pet hotels, every time we leave town. We leave town pretty frequently.
-More mouths to feed. Sure, they don't eat a lot (well, I suppose it depends on the size) but it's still something to consider. As many of you who read my blog often will know, I am very uncertain of the future. I think our country could be in some big time economic problems in the near future (way bigger problems than we are currently seeing) so taking on responsibility to feed another mouth is something I will consider. And, just for the record, I am not hoping I am right about a complete economic collapse. I just see it as a major possibility and am trying to plan our lives accordingly.
-Not all pets are amicable to young children. We'll have at least 2 young children in our home in a few months, and quite possibly more in the not so distant future. I am not sure I want to referee kids and pets all day. I do recognize there are quite a few dogs and cats that are great with children, but not all of them are.
With that lengthy list I am sure many of you are wondering why we are still even considering owning a pet. Even with all those cons, we think they are very worthwhile. We just aren't sure the timing is right. Maybe it would be better when we have older children and a house with more land and less coyotes lurking nearby. That being said, if it were up to you, would you:
1. Get a dog
2. Get a cat
3. Get neither
4. Get both
5. Other.
I am interested to hear what you think on this issue.